50 Quotes for a First Christmas Without Dad or Mom
Searching for the right words for a first holiday without a loved one? This collection of First Christmas Without Dad or Mom Quotes can help you figure out what to say.
The holidays can be a time of joy and might be known as the most wonderful time of the year, but for those experiencing a loss it can also be a profoundly difficult time. Coping with the first Christmas without a parent can be incredibly difficult, whether it’s your father or mother, your child’s parent, or a friend’s loved one.
It’s ok to not be ok, and navigating the mix of intense emotions the holiday season can bring when you’re grieving can be incredibly difficult. Unless note, this collection of first Christmas without dad quotes was curated from others who have been in these same shoes and written specifically for this post by members of the She Shines Media family.
I’ve split this article into three sections:
- First Christmas Without Your Own Parent Quotes
- First Christmas Without Your Parent Quotes for a Friend
- Famous Quotes About Missing a Loved One at Christmas
Though it’s a simple act, reading or sharing Christmas quotes that recognize the loss might make the moments a little brighter as you or your loved ones navigate loss this winter season.
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First Christmas Without Your Own Father or Mother Quotes
Missing loved ones at Christmas time can be accompanied by waves of sadness and grief. Sometimes speaking or writing comforting words, like quotes, can help with healing.
First Christmas Without Dad Quotes
“Dad, Christmas feels quieter without your strong presence. We wish you were here and love you so much.”
“Father Christmas can’t replace our love for you this holiday, dad. We know you’re never far from our heart.”
“You were my hero when I was young, and are still my hero today. Christmas isn’t the same without you, and I am so grateful for all the year we had together.”
“We hope you’re celebrating with us in heaven today, dad. We’re toasting to you!”
“The only wish on my Christmas list this year is to see you again in the great beyond one day. I miss you and love you so much.”
“We put up your favorite ornaments this year dad, and I could have sworn I heard your laugh as we pulled them out. I’ll never forget how much you loved doing this together, and I know I can feel close to you each holiday we trim the tree.”
“Even though I’m not with you right now, I know you’re not gone. Christmas Eve brings me so many memories of you, and all of the wonderful times we share. I love you, dad.”
“We may not be able to celebrate Christmas together anymore, but celebrating with you will always be one of the best gifts I ever received. Thank you for being such a great dad.”
“Our holiday dinner table misses your secret recipes! You made all of our lives a better place just by being in them. Today we’re dancing to your favorite Christmas music in the living room and remembering all the little things you did to fill the holidays with so much Christmas spirit.”
First Christmas Without Mom Quotes
“Mom, Christmas isn’t the same without your special touches. We honor your memory by keeping your traditions alive this year.”
“Mom, we miss your love this Christmas season, but know you’re always near our hearts.”
“We’re missing your loving arms and warm hugs this Christmastime, mom. You gave us the greatest gift of all: your love and so many wonderful memories.”
“You were all the wonderful things a great mom should be, and made all of our Christmases so magical.”
“Celebrating Christmas with you in our heart and mind this year. We know you’re looking down on us today.”
“The holidays are so much quieter without you this year. I hope you’re celebrating in Heaven and know how much we love you.”
“Christmas isn’t the same without you this year, Mom. I smile knowing you’re in Heaven with the angels, but I cry because I can’t hear your voice. I can still feel your spirit warming my heart.”
“I wish Santa’s sleigh could take me to see you one more time. Christmas may come and go, but my love for you will live forever. Thank you for being such a wonderful mom.”
First Christmas Without Your Parent Quotes for a Friend or Loved One
Helping a friend or loved one navigate their first Christmas without a parent can be tough. The first Christmas after losing a parent can be filled with so many emotions, and it can be hard to know what to say.
It’s ok to not know the right thing to say to a friend or family member who is grieving. What matters is that you try, and these quotes can help you figure out what to say to someone on their first Christmas without their dad or mom.
Share them as a handwritten note inside of Christmas cards, or as a short text to let them know you care. Friendship and love help us remember the true meaning of Christmas.
“It takes a great man to raise a great kid. Your mom/dad would be proud of the person you are. Merry Christmas.”
“Thinking of you as we approaching the upcoming holiday. Wishing you many memories to soothe your soul and better Christmas days ahead.”
“Sometimes one of the greatest blessings is spending time in the warm memories you shared with your mom/dad during Christmas. Wrapping you in love today and every day and sending Christmas cheer your way.”
“Christmas is never about the physical gifts, but the gifts of joy, family fun and love. I know this holiday season after the loss of your dad will be hard, but the wonderful memories of that time together with them mean they’ll never be forgotten.”
“Your mom added so much sparkle to the holiday season, and will never be forgotten. Her joy was infectious, and I know she’s looking down on you today and is so proud of you.”
“It’s ok for your heart to be weary this season, and not feel like celebrating. I hope your dad’s memories this Christmas season will bring you happiness as you remember all of the ways he made it so special.”
“Thinking of you this holiday season. I know seeing an empty spot at the table can be tough, but it will get easier.”
“You can remember your mom/dad in the glow of the Christmas lights and joy on the faces of your children this year. It’s ok to feel sad and still enjoy these moments together.”
“Even as we grieve, we can be grateful. To feel such a great loss means that you were lucky enough to be loved in such a big way. As you weather this first Christmas without your mom/dad, their memories live on in everyone who loved them.”
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Famous Quotes About Missing a Loved One at Christmas
The holidays can be hard for many, especially if they are missing a loved one. Whether it was through death, or a breakup, these famous quotes about missing a loved one at Christmas are pulled from popular song lyrics.
These quotes and songs might be a good way to help your grieving heart this year.
“They’re singing “Deck The Halls”
But it’s not like Christmas at all
‘Cause I remember when you were here
And all the fun we had last year
Pretty lights on the tree
(Christmas) I’m watching them shine
(Christmas) You should be here with me”
“Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” by Darlene Love (remade by Michael Bublé)
“This is my winter song
December never felt so wrong
‘Cause you’re not where you belong
Inside my arms”
“Winter Song” by Sara Bareilles and Ingrid Michaelson
“Last Christmas, I gave you my heart
But the very next day, you gave it away.”
”Last Christmas” by Wham!
“Decorations of red on a green Christmas tree
Won’t be the same, dear, if you’re not here with me.”
“Blue Christmas” by Elvis Presley
“You don’t have to be alone to be lonesome
It’s easy to forget
The sadness comes crashing like a brick through the window
And it’s Christmas so no one can fix it”
“Christmas Song” by Phoebe Bridgers
“It’s all red and gold and Nat King Cole and tinsel on the tree
It’s all twinkle lights and snowy nights and the kids still believe
And I know that they say, “Have a happy holiday”
And every year, I sincerely try
Oh, but Christmas, it always makes me cry”
“Christmas Makes Me Cry” by Kacey Musgraves
“The stars shine bright as the night air
And the thought of you not being here makes me shed a tear.”
“Cold December Nights” by Boyz II Men
“But I know, this picture’s not quite right
There’s someone on my mind
First Christmastime without him by our side, I know
He loved these Christmas bells
‘Cause they never say farewell
So we laugh, we shed a tear
For those who can’t be here”
“For Those Who Can’t Be Here” by Tom Walker
“Merry Christmas, darling
We’re apart, that’s true
But I can dream, and in my dreams, I’m Christmasing with you.”
“Merry Christmas Darling” by The Carpenters
“I don’t need sleigh rides in the snow
Don’t want a Christmas that’s blue
Take back the tinsel, stockings, and bows
‘Cause all I want for Christmas is you”
“All I Want for Christmas is You” by Vince Vance & The Valiants
Final Thoughts on What to Say to Someone on Their First Christmas Without Their Dad or Mom
Which of these first Christmas without mom or dad quotes resonated with you? Do you have any others to add? Let us know in the comment section below, and please be sure to pin this list to help others who are grieving find it this year, too.
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